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Nancy Roman

Epiphany!

Do you ever have one of those moments?

When suddenly you realize something important?

Today I had a revelation.

And it is not only something important. It is MAJOR IMPORTANT.

I’ve been having a rotten month. Worrying about my work, my coming retirement, my house, my finances, my family. I’m not a worrier by nature. I’m usually quite lighthearted. But when I do get in a worry mode – it tends to be FULL-OUT WOE.

And this month I have felt like I am walking around in the dark. I can’t see where I am going. But I can’t stop. I just keep walking anyway – into potholes and dead ends and fences. I’m distraught.

And today I saw a video.

And there it was.

My problem completely exposed.

I’m carrying a big box of shit that I think I might someday want – and it’s blocking my vision.

All I need to do

IS

PUT

DOWN

THE

DAMN

BOX!

35 Comments

  1. emjayandthem's avatar

    AMEN said the choir! 🙂 I had a similar week and a major breakthrough – whoo! MJ

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    • Nancy's avatar

      It’s amazing how we continue to carry the box around when it is just blocking our way.

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  2. Elyse's avatar

    That was hilarious. Completely mean, but hilarious. Of course I would have done exactly the same thing…

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  3. Deborah's avatar
    Deborah the Closet Monster

    Oh! This is hilarious! I’m glad I read this while Anthony’s reading D his bedtime stories; D will laugh at this before bed.

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    • Nancy's avatar

      I am delighted if the video gave your son a laugh!

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      • Deborah's avatar
        Deborah the Closet Monster

        He laughed straight through for all three minutes.

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  4. Molly mcvay's avatar
    Molly mcvay

    OMG. SO GOOD ON SO MANY LEVELS. 10 years ago I had a boyfriend with that name. Me,so blind. That box, that blinder, was me. Nancy I so enjoy reading all of what you have to say. Many thanks

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    • Nancy's avatar

      No kidding. It is astounding what we don’t see.

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  5. humoringthegoddess's avatar

    That’s what I like to hear!

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    • Nancy's avatar

      If we can’t drop the box permanently, at least we could set it down once in while!

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  6. dorannrule's avatar

    So funny! And I love the video.

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  7. wheremyfeetare's avatar

    So true but sometimes so hard to do…even Diesel can’t put the box down!

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  8. becomingcliche's avatar

    I think you just diagnosed me, too. I seem to keep running into walls, myself!

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  9. Bun Karyudo's avatar

    I noticed that by the end of the video, Lilo still had not put down the box. It may have to be surgically removed, I fear.

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    • Nancy's avatar

      I think the owner got him to drop it for a second. But he scooped it right back up. That’s one important box!

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      • Bun Karyudo's avatar

        It was quite impressive to see. Perhaps it has sentimental value. (Lilo’s mother was a boxer, after all.)

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  10. Kate Crimmins's avatar

    The problem is that sometimes we don’t know we have that damn box in our face! Poor pup! Hope your month turns better!

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  11. kdcol's avatar

    Funny how we don’t see what’s blocking our view. I think I have several boxes I need to put down. 🙂

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    • Nancy's avatar

      At least drop one…. two if you can bear it…

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  12. seabluelee's avatar

    And how stubbornly we can ignore the voices of those who love us and would like to help….

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    • Nancy's avatar

      No kidding! I think carrying that box makes us deaf too.

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  13. marycatherinethomas's avatar

    Great visual and post! I tend to do this often and I need to remember this. Thanks! DAF

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    • Nancy's avatar

      I saw myself so clearly in that ridiculous dog!

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      • marycatherinethomas's avatar

        we all are like that dog at some point in our lives… I was just so afraid he was going to get hit by a car…

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  14. Dana's avatar
    Dana

    But it smells so good!

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  15. pegoleg's avatar

    Great advice! Although if you were carrying around your box of shit the way that poor dog was carrying his box, I think gravity making the contents fall on your face would have prompted you to put it down right, damn fast.

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    • Nancy's avatar

      Oh the shit is always in my face, and I STILL have trouble putting it down.

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  16. Musings, Rants & Scribbles's avatar

    The box is the perfect metaphor. It blocks our way. Its useless. And yet we can’t quite put it down. Love that.

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