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Nancy Roman

DNA

It’s my mother’s birthday.

She’s 90.

I can hardly believe it. To me, she’s still my glamorous mom, and I’m her little girl, trying to follow in her footsteps.

When someone says, “Oh no, I’m becoming my mother!” – I laugh. But really there’s not much I would like better than to become my mother.

And I am well on my way.

The whole family took her out to dinner, and the first thing she said to me in the restaurant was, “Does my hair look okay?”

Yup, the acorn doesn’t fall too far from the tree.

And she told me a story recently that I had never heard before.

When she was sixteen she got her first job. She worked in a department store, in Accessories, selling purses and gloves, and such. Can you imagine needing a salesgirl for gloves? But remember, this was 1940. Ladies didn’t leave the house without gloves.

My mother was the child of Polish immigrants. They had very little money.  They lived in a cold-water apartment with a toilet down the hall. My grandmother made all my mother’s clothes. My grandmother was talented at the sewing machine, but I am sure my mother craved stylish store-bought clothes.  This was Mom’s opportunity to buy great clothes at a discount.

We have a lot in common. But of course when I worked in a clothing store, I had to quit. There were so many nice things, I owed them money at the end of the work week.  I just couldn’t afford to work there.

So Mom was excited by and proud of her very first job. And a few weeks into it, the weather turned very cold. On a windy day with a driving freezing rain, her boss told my mother to stand by the door and sell umbrellas.

And she put on her coat (and her gloves) and went home.

Like mother, like daughter, I thought.

But that reminded me: My mother was a daughter too.

I asked, “Was your mother furious that you quit your job?”

“No,” My mother said. “She wan’t mad!  She just laughed!”

YES! My DNA goes WAY BACK!

I’m so proud.

Happy Birthday, Mom!

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37 Comments

  1. Happy Birthday to your mom too! I love the way you write–I can identify with you so much.

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    • Thanks. My greatest desire is that my writing can make someone smile.

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  2. Happy Birthday to your sweet mother! You’re so blessed to still have her in your life. I love the story about her first job.

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  3. Happy Birthday to your mom. I bet she’s still glamorous.

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    • She is… Hair, makeup, jewelry, fashion – still tops on her priority list!

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  4. Happy Birthday to your Mom. She sounds like a delightful woman. Such a loving tribute to her, so glad you still have time to spend with her.

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  5. Happy Birthday, Mom! She’ll keep you grounded. She’s Christmas every day.

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  6. Susan

    I can see her doing just that – walking away, that is. HAPPY BIRTHDAY AUNT STEFFI, MAY THERE BE MANY MORE!

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    • You know her well: She hasn’t got much of a temper, but she has a will of steel. “Polite but determined” may be a good description.

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      • Susan

        Our mom’s were a lot alike – it took a lot to get either one of them mad, but when you did – stay out of their way…… I think we are both like our mothers, and as you said, I can’t think of anything better that either one of us can aspire to!

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  7. barbara schmidt

    Rosanne, here’s a (sometimes neat) blog by a woman around our age. You might enjoy it. love

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  8. Jon

    The nut doesn’t fall far from the tree. There, I said it!

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    • True! But my mother and I are two happy nuts!

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  9. Happy birthday to your Mom. She sounds as adorable now as when she was sixteen. Can’t help saying you’re a chip off the old block for sure. 😀

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  10. great story. I think I would have wanted to leave. not sure I would have had (or have now!) the balls to do it!

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    • Me either! But I am still trying to stand up for myself!

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  11. Aaaaw! I love your conclusion! (The rest, too, lest it be misunderstood.)

    Happy 90th to her!

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  12. You are so lucky you still have her in your life, and that she is willing to share her past with you.

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    • My mother LOVES to share stories and reminisce. And I never tire of listening to her. Perhaps that is why I am a storyteller now.

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  13. Love! She sounds like a great gal, but you already knew that 🙂 Happy birthday to your foxy Mom!
    MJ

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  14. What a milestone, what a wonderful desire; to be like your mother. Glorious.

    Happy Birthday to your Mother.

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    • I only hope to be like her. I have inherited her sense of style (thank goodness) but I don’t come close to having her sweetness.

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  15. I’d say you have very good “genes” judging from the milestone and her common sense in quitting the job. I’ll bet that is were you also get your good taste for the skinny “jeans”.

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  16. What a beautiful girl! And what a wonderful tribute to her. Happy Birthday to your Mom and congratulations on being just like her.

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  17. Happy Belated Birthday to Nancy’s Mom — many more.

    Great story!

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  18. Kim

    Don’t you just love those old family stories?

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    • I do! Good or bad, scandalous or sweet, sad or funny… I never tire of them.

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  19. Laurie MacKellar

    Great story, love the photo. Part of me wants to go back to the time when you had to wear hats and gloves

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    • I used to wear gloves and a hat to church. I liked it. I usually kept my gloves on during the service – hard to turn the pages in my prayerbook, though.

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